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	<title>Transforming Sex, Ellie Pope</title>
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	<description>Unique Ideas about Sex, Consciousness and Personal Growth</description>
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		<title>His Need, Her Need:  Freedom and Security</title>
		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s a classic problem.
Steve wants more freedom in the relationship, and Grace is scared.   (Steve and Grace aren&#8217;t real people, they&#8217;re a composite of several of my couples clients.)
It seems the more freedom Steve has, the less safe Grace feels.  And, the more safe Grace feels, the less free Steve feels.
They love [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://transformingsex.com/?p=52</link>
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		<title>Do You Know THIS Secret to Full Self-Expression?</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Oh, that awful feeling &#8230; you&#8217;ve just decided you&#8217;re going to speak your truth, and say what&#8217;s really important to you. 
You feel the fear, and do it anyway. You say something really daring &#8230; only to find your friends and family react with anger, hurt or confusion. 
As they react, it makes you uncomfortable [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://transformingsex.com/?p=49</link>
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		<title>Courage to Date Again</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I got this question in my email box recently:  after a bad breakup, how do I find the courage to get out and date again?
If you&#8217;re going on dates with an attitude that it&#8217;s going to go wrong, you&#8217;re headed for trouble.
First things first:  love your life now, as a single.  If [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://transformingsex.com/?p=48</link>
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