The Difference Between Ogling and Admiring
A common question from my male clients is the difference between ogling and admiring.
Here’s the stereotype: women don’t like being ogled, but enjoy authentic admiration. Men love to admire, and don’t want to ogle, but they’re not sure they know the difference.
So the guys who want to honour women withhold their admiration (lest it be mistaken for ogling), and the guys who don’t care just keep on ogling. Then it seems like all men are either neutral, or ogling!
When I ask women how they distinguish ogling from admiring, they can’t put it into concrete words. [Read more →]
